Love doesn't change

Love doesn't change, we are the ones who change

When two people live a intense love relationship, and after some time they separate, each one goes searching their own way, they don't remain in each other's vision field. What was the end to that feeling? Does love really end?

What ends is some of our expectations and wishes, that are substituted by others during our progression in life. People don't change in essence, but change a lot in their dreams, they change their points of view and the necessities, especially necessities. Love is usually carved from our lack of affective involvement, but that sense of lack isn't static, it changes the same time we go threw new experiences. Love doesn't stay the same even for people who don't seem to change.

If nothing changes inside, the love that is felt, even the suffering, also wont change. Eternal love only exists for two kind of people. First is those who refuse experience life, for those who don't want to investigate about them selfs, are happy with what they established as a truth in a certain time and continue that truth until they almost reach the age of 120. The other kind of people are the fortunate: the ones of love somebody, and even having evolved over time, find their partner has also evolved, that evolution happened with the same intensity and appeared in the same direction. Being the way it is, they are able to renew the love, because the each ones personal renewal was so similar that no conflict was created.

Love doesn't change. Love only leaves the center of our attentions. Time dissolves our defenses, giving us other possibilities and we go on because its our human nature that makes us advance. Its not the feeling that ends, its us who are depleted from suffering, or depleted from waiting, or depleted from always the same thing. Passion ends, love doesn't. Love is what occupies out of freewill all our spaces, as long as its welcome, and we transfer to our daily life with deepness when nothing else works, but is never totally banned form our world.