in restaurant

In restaurant client calls waiter:
-Please try my crab soup.
-Excuse me, is something not ok?
-Please, try it.
-Yes, ofcourse. I will bring you another plate.
-No, just try that soup!
-We have fantastic choice of different soups, please, choose something else.
-Try that soup, quickly!!!
Waiter starts to look over the table and then says:
-But where is the spoon?
-Thats excatly what i wanted to ask for you...

i guess that sometimes things are more simple then we think. and sometimes we make some prefigurations and ideas what person thinks, but we are wrong with that. sometimes its just better to ask and listen, then to make our own ideas of the things other might think